Some social rules that may help you

10:39 am

✿السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته✿

Let's practice!

1. don't call someone more than twice continuously. if they don't pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to.

2. return money that you have borrowed even before the other person remembers lending it to you. it shows your integrity and character. same goes with umbrella, pens, 'tupperware', etc.

3. say 'thank you' when someone is helping you.

4. don't ask awkward question like, "ooo... so you aren't married yet?", "don't you have kids?", "why didn't you buy a house?", "why don't you buy a car?" for Allah's sake, it isn't your problem.

5. always open the door for the person coming behind you. it doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public.

6. if you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time.

7. respect different shades of opinions. remember what's the digit 6 to you will appear the digit 9 to someone facing you. besides, second opinion is good for an alternative.

8. never interrupt people talking. allow them to pour it out. as they say, hear them all and filter them all.

9. if you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're.

10. never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner. if possible ask them to order their choice of food for you.

11. praise publicly. criticize privately.

12. there’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. just say, “You look fantastic.” if they want to talk about losing weight, they will.

13. when someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. you never know what’s next.

14. if a colleague tells you they have a doctors' appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say "I hope you’re okay". don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. if they want you to know, they'll do so without your inquisitiveness.

15. treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect.

16. if a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude.

17. never give advice until you’re asked.

18. when meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary.

19. mind your business unless anything involves you directly - just stay out of it.

20. remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. it is a sign of respect. more so, eye contact is as important as your speech.

21. never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. similarly, don't talk about your children in the midst of the barren.

22.after reading a good message, try to say "Thanks for the message". APPRECIATION remains the easiest way of getting what you don't have.

thanks for reading.

Kisah Silam Untuk Masa Depan

57 Words of Lo♥e

  1. Thank you for reminder :)

  2. sedangkan suami ciksun pun, ciksun tak pernah tanya gaji dia... 😅

  3. timekaseh atas reminder bagus nih., ;p

  4. Thank you Anies. Sangat sangat bagus kalau semua orang boleh amalkan semua ni. Sejahtera dan aman hidup tanpa mereka yang busy body, boleh respect dan menghargai orang disekeliling :)

  5. Btw, hadiah dah sampai anies. Terima kasih. If tak nak publish komen ni dengan url ni. sokay, saya faham. Cuma nak inform :)

  6. Point nomor 4 ... itu juga aku sependapat.

    Pertanyaan seperti itu bersifat privacy.
    Lancang namanya jika bertanya dengan pertanyaan seperti itu ke orang.

  7. Terima kasih atas perkongsian yang sangat bagus ini. Mudah-mudahan kita semua dapat memerangi Covid-19.

  8. Setuju semua ni.. salam hujung minggu anies

  9. Gracias por el consejo son buenas reglas. Siempre hay que ser educado y empatico con las otras personas. Te mando un beso

    1. tienes razón, amiga. al hacer el bien a los demás, crearemos una vida armoniosa y pacífica.

  10. Sangat bagus untuk diamalkan. Kita respect orang, orang respect kita. Takut dah lama sangat social distancing, lupa cmane nak berinteraksi dengan manusia secara berdepan. Haha

    1. eleh... hari2 berinteraksi dgn abam Mane tu apa hal? ;-)

  11. Gigih saya baca dan hadam satu persatu. Terima kasih utk perkongsian ini.

  12. Bom dia minha querida amiga, parabéns pela matéria maravilhosa.

  13. Wah... enaknya makananya, mau Kak? Hehe...

  14. Thanks for the helpful tips! :)

  15. Oh thanks for share all these advices

  16. No 2 Mrs. A selalu gak terkena

  17. Cute post!!!! thank you very much!

  18. I did read those messages.
    Thank you for the messages :)

  19. How true each and every one of it

  20. terima kasih untuk perkongsian ini anies..
    Ada beberapa perkara yang memang kadang kita tak sengaja atau tak perasan terbuat..

  21. 10 and 16 menarik perhatian aida, anies.
    releks aje oder makanan if org nak belanja. yg patut2 aje.
    we can never know brape dia ada dlm purse, kan.
    then, bab tgk phone bila org sedang bercakap dgn kita.
    terkenangkan bos. sedang dgn dia, tetiba ada org call.
    hal keje jugak. dia larang kami angkat call tu selagi hal dgn dia x settle :)
    hu hu hu hu hu... nak minta izin jawab call kat luar bilik dia pun dia tak kasik.

  22. Nice sharing anies... Setuju dengan semua point tu. Kalau semua orang amalkan sudah tentu kita semua akan lebih saling hormat-menghormati dan saling menghargai. Sama-samalah kita perbaiki diri.



yea yea...
mekacih korang!
nanti anies BW ya!
mungkin lewat BW..
tapi yang PASTI,
anies tetap akan
TERJAH blog korang!